Saturday, June 13, 2009

Old Antics has to Leave

May it be called need or may it be called want. Never-the-less, Guys4men has been referred to as a requirement for gay guys across the globe. A sort of sanctuary that exists due to the fact that there is no other way for some to meet other people of the same kind. Everyone participating there are most certainly gay, confused, or curious. It also does away from the risk that the guy your meeting and "dating" is just a kind straight dude. But as sure as you are that that guy is gay maybe, you wont experience the sweating moments, butterflies in the stomach and the shaking hands. Most guys there are plainly there for the usual sexual encounter -- dull, shallow, and unemotional. Thats why some guys, like me, are opting to just bump into Mr. Right and get hitched from there on. But before that even happens, im going to concentrate on my real friends and just stay away from such sites. Some of you who are reading this might have a different perspective. Please do comment, i'd like to know what you think....

4 comments:

mckhoii said...

I found the man I shared with the best love story I had (so far) in guys4men (now planet romeo with lots of bugs). Only you can dictate the purpose of having an account whether for LTR or ONS unless undecided of what you really want. If your purpose is to find true love yet succumb to temptations of the flesh then having an account for that matter defeats the primary purpose.

Hey Von, you haven't added my blog to your bloglist yet
it's http://forwardpush.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

i couldn't agree more! most of the guys on that site are only lookin for sex (SHALLOW HAL!).

Von Adrian said...

mckhoii > all i can say is that the love story you had/have is still being worn. And its really up to you if you want to keep wearing it or throw it in the hamper...

Von Adrian said...

Anonymous > haha... you can say that a couple of times but it never really gets old. This is my third time to delete my connection to that site however, i still cam back after saying those same exact words. But i know this is the last. I just bumped into someone... im the happiest man out there since i cut the connection to this site. i do hope you get to really apply that same decision too and stick with it :D take care