MOCA,
I feel glad that last night(his birthday) Makoi and I finally arrived at a decision of getting back to each other for the second time. We are both promising better communication, better understanding and support for each other. I love the feeling but im threatened by the fact that what happened(break up) will happen again but who cares? He's the only man who can make me happy.
I am busy today so i'll email you longer mail nextime.
later MOCA,
Dear BOI BAKAT,
"I am happy for you." -- think of this statement as i continue this email. You might start to misconstrued the following but do remember that "I am happy for you." :)
First of is the reality.
I wasn't really an avid fan of the talk show "tyra"
however
there is a lesson that i picked up from an episode.
The lesson goes like this,
"Don't let the time spent together help you decide that to do next."
We often hear people say
"...but we spent so much time together, i cant just let go of that!"
and
"he has grown in me, i know him 'coz we've been together for so long now."
and plenty more statements.
here's the first thing to think about,
what has been the time spent with him like? an upbringing or an entire mistake?
second on the list is,
has it really been what both of you wanted.
if its gonna be a one way road where the other doesn't want to compromise after conversation or even fights,
then in the end,
the submissive side would start to resent in the future.
And yes, Resent in the deepest meaning of the word.
lastly is the pride.
yes, i do know you two are proud enough to tell your parents about your "US" thing.
Over the course of 7 (am i correct? 7 years or was that 10?) or so years, has anything changed on your pride for each other?
evaluate and re-evaluate
dont be biased when doing this
is the other proud that he is with the other and not anyone else?
OH! i almost forgot
after this
try to be dumb :D
being to logical can actually mess the entire thing :D hehe
ironic aint it?
love is one of the most serious steps that a person would take,
yet ironically, being to serious would actually mess the entire thing up.
Dear BOI BAKAT,
"I am happy for you." -- think of this statement as i continue this email. You might start to misconstrued the following but do remember that "I am happy for you." :)
First of is the reality.
I wasn't really an avid fan of the talk show "tyra"
however
there is a lesson that i picked up from an episode.
The lesson goes like this,
"Don't let the time spent together help you decide that to do next."
We often hear people say
"...but we spent so much time together, i cant just let go of that!"
and
"he has grown in me, i know him 'coz we've been together for so long now."
and plenty more statements.
here's the first thing to think about,
what has been the time spent with him like? an upbringing or an entire mistake?
second on the list is,
has it really been what both of you wanted.
if its gonna be a one way road where the other doesn't want to compromise after conversation or even fights,
then in the end,
the submissive side would start to resent in the future.
And yes, Resent in the deepest meaning of the word.
lastly is the pride.
yes, i do know you two are proud enough to tell your parents about your "US" thing.
Over the course of 7 (am i correct? 7 years or was that 10?) or so years, has anything changed on your pride for each other?
evaluate and re-evaluate
dont be biased when doing this
is the other proud that he is with the other and not anyone else?
OH! i almost forgot
after this
try to be dumb :D
being to logical can actually mess the entire thing :D hehe
ironic aint it?
love is one of the most serious steps that a person would take,
yet ironically, being to serious would actually mess the entire thing up.
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